Enjoying
life is akin to taking care of your teeth. It is right in front of
your face, but how many mindlessly brush and never floss? The extra
step can add sparkle to your smile and even a sense of
accomplishment, but it takes time. The philosophy of “a little
effort and a lot of observation” can apply to every aspect of life
and make the most of what is already there.
Life’s
routines, such as work and commitments, keep us grounded, but many
may be left feeling there is no room for anything else. When fun is
put in motion, it is done with a modicum of guilt and worry. Minds
drift to “What is going on back in the ‘real world’?” and
“Should I check my phone for anything?” It is survival vs. savor.
There
is no magic formula for enjoying life, just like there is no clear
definition of happiness. To savor is to start with the little extras.
There is no need to chuck it all and move to the Caribbean. Look at
that morning coffee. That everyday mug may be perfect with a pour of
cream and sugar, but why not sprinkle cinnamon on top? Or chocolate?
It will not change what lies underneath but it will add another
dimension.
The key to
living in a hectic, everyday-is-a-deadline world may be making the
most of the tiny choices. According to the Time’s website,
psychologist Rich Walker examined more than 500 diaries. He
determined people who have different types of experiences are more
apt to retain positive feelings than those with less variety in their
lives.1
Sometimes
it takes putting the routine aside to make the most of each moment.
By paying attention to the details, the cream of life will rise to
the top and the enjoyment will filter down and spill over in other
aspects of being. The way to live a more fulfilled life is not to
deconstruct what is there, but to reconfigure what is.
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